Our kids mean everything to us. This doesn't get any easier as they grow into adulthood. We as parents just have less influence. In fact, I think there is more to be concerned about. There are the people they share their lives with and the next generation of children they have to add to our list of concerns.
While I'm glad I can 'give' all this concern to God and know that whatever happens is being orcherstrated, I wish I knew that they were praying too. This is where I stand in the gap for them. We can only do so much. I'm thankful I raised two wonderful sons and gave them good roots that are always there to draw from.